Someone asked me today if “porn sex” was real sex. My quick answer was, “sometimes”. But after thinking about it for a while, I decided a closer look at the subject might be in order so I thought I’d take a few minutes and share my perspective as an older man who is lucky enough to work as male talent in the porn industry.
Don’t Underestimate The Power Of Anticipation
First, for those of you that don’t know me, I produce adult content for Glass Mannequin Productions’ three amateur porn sites, Glass Mannequin, Real Colorado Girls and Bring Me Your Sister. I’m also the primary male talent on these sites. I’ve never worked for any of the large production companies but I have worked with and or for quiet a number of small production companies both in the US and in Europe and primarily with amateur models. Therefore my perspective is biased towards amateur girls in amateur productions as opposed to a pornstar working in a huge production or amateurs working for the “run-em-through then throw them out” production companies that bill their work as “amateur” content.
The Right Amount Of “Tease” Can Increase The Sexual Tension
So back to the question. Is porn sex real sex? Immediately after being asked this a few specific episodes flashed through my mind. Episodes where the sex was as real and as amazing as any sex can be – on or off camera. So I thought I’d mention some of the things that make a sexual experience special. Physical attraction, anticipation, chemistry, the tease, smell, foreplay, oral sex, initial insertion, physical compatibility, hygiene, respect for limits, technique, duration, playfulness, fantasies, personal preferences, dominance, strength, flexibility, and other minor things like does the bitch like the taste of cum But seriously, good sex should be good for both parties. The next thought that entered my mind were those few episodes where the sex was horrible. But let’s not dwell on the negative but instead, take a look at what makes sex “real”, on-set, or off-set.
A Little Chemistry Can Go A Long Way
Let’s start with chemistry. First and foremost real sex, or at least real good sex, always starts with good chemistry between all the parties involved. This includes the talent, crew and others on set. If people are getting along and are relaxed, you are much more likely to capture at least a few moments of the ever elusive “real sex” on film. Any semi-professional actor/actress can go through the motions and make the scene look good on tape but it’s those scenes where you forget there’s a camera 3 inches from your asshole and just fuck the living shit out of you partner. These are the scenes I tend to seek out and add to my collection.
Let Her Take Charge
Foreplay is NEVER overrated. One of the problems with most porn scenes is there’s not much time for foreplay – lucky for us, we break the rules and try to get plenty of touching, fondling and kissing. I find it hilarious that some girls are willing to swallow your cum on camera but they refuse to do kissing in a scene – real sex on-camera, just like real sex off-camera should have at least some kissing. Some of my best porn scenes were with girl I was dating at the time or had dated in the past so kissing wasn’t
Don’t Forget The Foreplay
One thing that all good sex scenes have in common is that the “actors” are having fun. If the people in the scene are having a good time, you can bet the sex is real. Look for the twinkle in a girls eye, the spontaneous laugh and the big natural smiles. Real fun results in real sex, even in a porn video.
Make It Fun
Love to eat pussy. The best blowjobs I’ve ever received were all from girls that love to suck cock and I’ve developed an opinion on this – if you love something, you’re much more to prone be good at it so it make sense, love to eat pussy! I’ll also let you in on a little secret, PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR PARTNER! All the practiced technique in the world won’t do you any good at all if you aren’t receptive to their needs and desires.
Learn To Eat Pussy
Quit worrying what you look like and just have fun. To tell the truth, I don’t even remember how the panties got on my head but the Real Colorado Girls scene with Blaze Burnz ranks as some of the best sex I’ve had – EVER! Yes, Blaze and I have amazing chemistry – so much so that we both forgot the cameras were even there resulting in one of the most intense simultaneous orgasms I’ve ever had with a woman on camera – yes, porn sex can be real sex!
Don’t Worry About Looking Silly
So as you can see, porn sex can be real sex – so long as the two actors relax, quit “acting” and just make love. This is the goal of every scene we shoot for Glass Mannequin, Real Colorado Girls and Bring Me Your Sister and it becomes the reality on the vast majority of scenes, partly because we try to make sure we have a comfortable environment but mostly because of the wonderful women that work with us.
Porn Sex Can Be Real Sex
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